Treating Women - 10 Tips

“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women— And What To Do About It...”

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes.

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy” -

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You" -

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission -

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts -

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” 2 Early In The Relationship With Her -

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women -

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks -

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women -

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea...

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women -

Now I'm going to blow your mind...

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP -

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

Well believe me, this program will DRAMATICALLY increase your success with women... I absolutely guarantee it 100%.

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Love is not Possessive

- Love is not possessive -

• A truly creative person is one who breathes love every moment of his life.
• By love I mean a sensitive heart and not a sentimental heart.
• A sensitive heart experiences 'what is' with awe; a sentimental person reacts to 'what is'

Love is the only savior in this world. Love unites and hate divides.
Society has witnessed life based on likes and dislikes, on greed and hate and hence loveless lives. From the foundation of love, your likes and dislikes will become preferences, your greed will transform into a commitment to excel, and your hate will be transformed into concerns. People have preached about love but the undercurrent has been hate. A wise man has to be created with a new heart. A heart without love is on the path of destruction.

• If your state of being is love then your struggles will also be sacred, or there will be no struggles at all.
• If you are a lover of dogs then the tricks of the dogs become an act of joy.
• We talk of love but we are not in a state of love.
• We only pretend to be in love. Our pretensions become better and manipulative.
• A deceptive front starts to build in us.
• A deceptive and pretentious self is noisy and restless. You try to eliminate this restlessness by wrong means and then you throw the garbage of this restlessness on the other. This process makes relationships very messy.

When your state of being is love, then there is no manipulative game. You are silent and restful. This silence you shower on the partner and therefore, more than the intimacy, there is an exchange of silence. This quality of relationship is fulfilling.

• Our love life is not love but desires masquerading as love.
• Love makes no conditions.
• Love never demands,
• "Fulfill my expectations then I will love you." But most of our love life is like that.

Because of the demand, our relationships are like beggars begging from the other. If two beggars meet beggary is going to increase. In a state of love you will not be a beggar but a giver. Giving comes from love that has no conditions. The joy of giving is bigger than the petty logic of 'if' and 'but'.

When one is silent in the deepest core of one's being, love arises like a fragrance. Such love is unconditional; like the fragrance of the flower it does not create conditions regarding whom to give fragrance to and whom not to give. In this space you give love – and the person concerned is not obliged. You will feel grateful that there is someone who is receiving your love.

Conditional love sends out messages like this: “I have done so much for you, so now you should do this for me.” Or “I need your attention, your sympathy, your consent, your time, your presence, your love.” Or “I want you to live your life according to my beliefs and ideas.” “I need you to need me, and to look after me exactly the way I have in mind.” “And if you don’t do that, I will fall ill or become very unhappy.”

This kind of relationship is psychologically suffocating, and can be even physically suffocating, for the person(s) it concerns. It does not allow personal space to the other one. The path the other one has chosen for his/her life is deliberately surpassed for the sake of someone’s egocentric purposes.

Deep down hidden in the soul of the demanding and possessive person dwells a needy little child, longing for love and appreciation. Under the surface lies deep seated insecurity and fear of loss, especially of relationships. They have difficulty with experiencing self-love and self-acceptance, and the behavior they show is a great example of compensation.

The whole economics of love is that you become richer when you give love.

B&L Damaging Habbits

- Brain Damaging Habbits -

1. No Breakfast -
   People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.
   
   
2. Overeating -
   It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.
   
   
3. $moking -
   It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.
   
   
4. High Sugar consumption -
   Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.
   
   
5. Air Pollution -
   The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.
   
   
6. Sleep Deprivation -
   Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.
   
   
7. Head covered while sleeping -
   Sleeping with the head covered, increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.
   
   
8. Working your brain during illness -
   Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.
   
   
9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts -
   Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.
   
   
10. Talking Rarely -
    Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain.

The main causes of Liver Damage are -

1. Sleeping too late and waking up too late are main cause.
2. Not urinating in the morning.
3. Too much eating.
4. Skipping breakfast.
5. Consuming too much medication.
6. Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring , and artificial sweetener.
7. Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. As much as possible reduce cooking oil use when frying, which includes even the best cooking oils like olive oil. Do not consume fried foods when you are tired, except if the body is very fit.
8. Consuming raw (overly done) foods also add to the burden of liver.
   Veggies should be eaten raw or cooked 3-5 parts. Fried veggies should be finished in one sitting, do not store.

We should prevent this without necessarily spending more. We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our bodies to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to "schedule."

Because -

• Evening at 9 - 11 PM : is the time for eliminating unnecessary/ toxic chemicals (detoxification) from the antibody system (lymph nodes). This time duration should be spent by relaxing or listening to music. If during this time a housewife is still in an unrelaxed state such as washing the dishes or monitoring children doing their homework, this will have a negative impact on health.

• Evening at 11pm - 1 am: is the detoxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state.

• Early morning 1 - 3 am: detoxification process in the gall, also ideally done in a deep sleep state.

• Early morning 3 - 5 am: detoxification in the lungs. Therefore there will sometimes be a severe cough for cough sufferers during this time. Since the detoxification process had reached the respiratory tract, there is no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process.

• Morning 5 - 7am: detoxification in the colon, you should empty your bowel.

• Morning 7 - 9 am: absorption of nutrients in the small intestine, you should be having breakfast at this time.

• Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30 am, for those who are sick. Breakfast before 7:30 am is very beneficial to those wanting to stay fit. Those who always skip breakfast, they should change their habits, and it is still better to eat breakfast late until 9 - 10 am rather than no meal at all.

• Sleeping so late and waking up too late will disrupt the process of removing unnecessary chemicals.

• Aside from that, midnight to 4:00 am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood.

• Therefore, have a good sleep and don't sleep late.

Do Take Care about your Health

ACNE (Pimples) - Tips

Acne is a common problem faced by almost all teen-agers and youth. What is acne and why do we get them. Acne is actually caused because of hormone imbalance. Your skin breaks out because of a hormone called testosterone. Both men and women have testosterone in their systems. In fact, did you know that in order to make testosterone, boys bodies have to make female hormones first? If you have acne, you haven't got abnormal levels of testosterone. You've got skin that reacts abnormally to this hormone. You start producing testosterone around the time you start sprouting body hair. Testosterone tells glands in your skin, called sebaceous glands, to produce oily stuff called sebum. To add to the problem the inside of the tubes that hold each hair become gummy and get partially blocked - giving you blackheads. Put together if sebum blocks the tubes --- you have big acne.
So go to your pharmacist or doctor to get your acne treated. Here are a few tips that will help you know how to treat acne at home.

1. If you have red angry looking acne, don't touch it. If you squeeze now, all you'll do is force the contents deeper into the skin that will make matters worst. And all you'll end up with is redder, angrier acne than you had before. Don't do it.
   

2. If you have a yellow custard top? Go for it. These beauties CAN be squeezed but there's an art to it. Here's how. Wash your hands thoroughly to avoid trouble and infection. Put a tissue over your finger. Why? Because you want the contents of the spot on the tissue, not splattered all over the mirror. Using the side of your thumb and the end of your finger, very gently start to squeeze. Don't whatever you do, use your nails as this will damage your skin. Stop when you're applying a lot of pressure and nothing is happening and you see clear fluid, rather than yellow grotty stuff and the spot begins to bleed. When you've finished dab it with antiseptic. Once the custard bit is out, the spot will heal more quickly than an unsqueezed yellow top would, providing that you now leave it well alone. Now wash your hands again.
   

3. Whiteheads and blackheads. If acne is left untreated they may cause this problem. Here the rule is if they're black, squeeze but if they're small, white raised lumps leave them alone. All that stuff about clean hands, tissues and stopping if nothing is happening or you see blood, apply here too.

- Tips for acne treatment -

1. DON'T TRY TO WASH IT AWAY -
   Acne isn't caused by dirt. In fact people with oily skin have cleaner skin than average because they wash it more often. But it's a fact that washing too much can make acne worse because it makes the skin dry and sore. So, wash no more than twice a day, using mild soap and water. If you have patches of dry skin, don't worry about putting moisturizer on. It won't make your acne worse. If you're still concerned, use an oil free moisturizer.
   
   
2. DON'T NUKE 'EM -
   There are lots of over the counter creams, gels, lotions and potions. Most contain a powerful bleaching agent called benzoyl peroxide. You'll find the strength written on the label. You might be tempted to go straight for the highest sort, working on the 'let's nuke 'em principle. The likely result is that you'll irritate your skin like mad. It may also go all dry and scaly on you. But if you still are willing to bleach then use the mild one.
   
   
3. MAKE A DATE - THE TWO MONTH RULE -
   If you have been using over the counter remedies for two months and there is no real improvement in your spots, this is the moment to go and make an appointment with your doc.
   
   
4. YOUR DOCTOR - THE TWO MONTH RULE -
   The thing you are most likely to be given by the doctor is a prescription for antibiotics. These will either be topical (which means something you put on your skin) or tablets you have to take every day. Whatever treatment your doctor or pharmacist recommends, follow the instructions carefully and keep using for at least two months. There should be a noticeable improvement by this time. If not, go back to discuss other possible treatments Antibiotics are perfectly safe to take. You should take them for at least two months and then go back to your doc. If they seem to be working, he will probably tell you to keep taking them and give you some more. If they aren't doing their stuff, don't despair - he has loads of other spot busters in his black bag.
   
   
5. YOU ARE NOT AN ALIEN - BUT JUST BE PATIENT -
   Hundreds of thousands of teenagers seek help for acne. You are not alone. You are not an alien. And if people really care about you, they don't even notice your acne, however bad you think they are. But you will need to be patient. Most treatments take time to work. At least two months. And some treatments, like antibiotics will work well but may have to be taken for months, or even years.
   
   
6. THE MONTHLY CURSE OR EXAMS -
   Acne does tend to get worse just before a period. It's because there is a surge in hormone levels at this time. But boys don't get away lightly either. Being hot and sweaty (particularly after sports like football) makes acne worse. And for everyone, stress - particularly at exam times - is a cue for a mega breakout. This is normal - and of course, even more reason for feeling stressed. Go chill. They'll get better - promise.
   
   
7. WATCH WHAT YOU PUT ON YOUR SKIN AND HAIR -
   Some beauty products are big no-nos. These include pomades and defrizzing agents for hair that tend to cause an outcrop of blackheads along the hairline and some of the heavier cosmetics. And be wary of suntan oils. Not all will make you break out, but some may. Try a friend's first before you buy. By the way, the sun might dry up acne and a tan might hide them, but your skin is still vulnerable in the sun and needs protection.
   
   
8. CARRY ON KISSING -
   You can't catch acne during kissing - go for it!
   
   
9. CARRY ON EATING CHOCOLATE -
   It's a myth that eating chocolate and fried foods causes acne. However, eating a good diet improves your general well-being and this is reflected in your skin.

- Common Questions asked about acne problem -

• Does wearing make up cause acne?
  It is not necessary that wearing make up causes acne. Acne is caused because of hormonal imbalance mostly during puberty. But you have to take special care while you apply make up and thereafter if you have acne. Make sure you wash any make up tools, including sponges and brushes as often as possible as these become a breeding ground for bugs which can cause your spots to pop up. Stop wearing make up if you have too many spots and you can resume after you have treated them. Don't forget to clean the make up after you come home and and make sure you cleanse your face properly each night.
  
  
• Do skin toner and moisturizer cure acne?
  One thing that you need to know is acne is not caused by dirt, so no amount of cleaning and toning is going to get rid of them. So for treating acne you must consult your doctor and eat lots of healthy food and drink lots of water. That is the natural way to keep you face spot free.
  
  
• Is it ok to do facial?
  It can be a real treat to have the facial done, as they can be very relaxing and make you feel properly pampered. However, you should be aware that they should not be used to help 'treat' spots, as this can be quite dangerous if the beauty therapist is not trained. Sometimes a beauty therapist will also squeeze out any spots and blackheads that if it's not done properly, may cause a bigger problem than before.
  
  
• What is the best way to cover up spots?
  Foundation is okay to use and may give you more confidence if you've got a hot date, but remember to look for oil-free one. Whatever you use to put on your skin, wash your hands or sponge before applying foundation.

Love SmS III

• 1 LOVELY quote: We always LOVE our LOVE coz our LOVE always LOVES what we LOVE to LOVE & ur LOVE LOVES the way you LOVE ur LOVE. So keep LOVING.
  
  
• Log kahte hai kii jis se hum ne dosti ki hai woh chand ka ek tukda hai hum kehte hai ki jis se hum ne dosti ki hai chand uus ka ek tukda hai.
  
  
• Log samajhte hain humne unko bhula rakha hai, wo kya jane ki dil me chupa rakha hai, dekhe nakoi usay meri aankho me isliye palkon ko jhuka rakha hai.
  
  
• 1 STONE IS ENOUGH 2 BREAK A GLASS,1 SENTENCE IS ENOUGH 2 BREAK A HEART,1 WORD IS ENOUGH TO FALL IN LOVE &1 FRIEND IS ENOUGH TO LIVE IN THIS WORLD
  
  
• Dosti karo college wali se, pyar karo office wali se, programe karo pados wali se, ankh ladao sali se, love karo dilwali se, aur mar khao ghar wali sy.
  
  
• Feelings are many but words are few, clouds are dark but sky is blue; Love is a paper, life is glue, every thing is false, Only My Love is TRUE
  
  
• If ur world is spinning around and ur heart is beating fast..Do u think its love? Na Munna Na it's called High BP:p.
  
  
• I'm a PAPER, u can write ur feelings, scribble ur anger, use me 2 absorb tears. Don't throw me after use but when u feel cold burn me to feel warm coz I Luv U.
  
  
• R: is for red. RED: is for blood
  BLOOD: is for heart HEART: is for love
  LOVE: is for you YOU: is for me
  ME: is for you. (((I MISS YOU)))
  
  
• Bottle main Pepsi say zyaada.... used Socks main smell say bhi zyaadaa.... Adnan Sami main charbi say zyaada... Mithai main sweet say zyaada... Pakistan main coruption say zzyaada... I LOVE U
  
  
• Don;t frown.You never know who is falling in love with your smile
  
  
• Fact of life: More often,v fall in luv wid a person v can nvr live wid n sumtimes d one v truely LOVE remains either a friend or a stranger..
  
  
• Life is 4 livin, I Live 4 U.
  Songs r 4 singin, I Sing 4 U.
  Love is 4 carin, I Care 4 U.
  Angels r 4 keepin, Can I keep U...?
  
  
• Speak less to people whom u love most.....Because if they cant understand ur silence..... They can never understand your words....
  
  
• U-ME=NOTHING
  U+ME=EVERYTHING
  I LOVE U
  
  
• Falling in love is a sweet ambition, finding true love is a life time mission.. Take my word, follow the Indian tradition & marry ur dad's decision !
  
  
• I believe that GOD above created u for me to love... HE picked u out from all the rest...because HE know I Love u the best...
  
  
• Love bears all things, Love believes all things, Love hopes all things, and most precious of all, Love endures all things. Come we love and make things happy.
  
  
• Doubt that the stars are fire, doubt that the sun doth move, doubt truth to be a liar, but never doubt I love.
  
  
• Pure love and suspicion cannot dwell together: at the door where the latter enters, the former makes its exit.
  
  
• Expect the people you love to be better. It helps them to become better. But don't get upset when they fail. It helps them keep trying
  
  
• I have no regrets. I will never regret loving someone because the feeling of love for five minutes is greater than an eternity of hurt
  
  
• The one thing we can never get enough of is love. And the one thing we never give enough is love.
  
  
• Talk 2 me when i'm bored, kiss me when i'm sad, hug me when i cry, care 4 me when i die, love me when i'm still alive.
  
  
• A smile to put you on high... A kiss to set your soul alright...Would it be alright if I spent tonight being loved by you?
  
  
• The hardest thing you'll ever do is watch the one u love, love someone else.
  
  
• Jane kis baat ki mujhko saza deta hai,meri hasti hui ankhon ko rula deta hai.Ek muddat se khabar bhi nahi teri,koi is tarah bhi kya apne Pyar ko bhula deta hai.
  
  
• kisi ke pyar ko bhulna na aaya hume. kisi ke dil ko dukhana na aaya hume. kisi ke liye tadpna to seekh liya par apne liye kisi ko tadpana na aaya hume.
  
  
• Ae khat ja unke hatho ko chum le.wo padhe to unke hotho ko chumle.khuda na kare wo faad b dale,to girte girte unke kadmo ko chumle
  
  
• Ulfat ka aksar yehi dastur hota hai,
  jise chaho wahi apne se dur hota hai,
  Dil tutkar bikharta hai is kadar jaise
  koi kanch ka khilona chur-chur hota hai.
  
  
• Heart is like a bottle of perfume.If u nvr open it nobody knows the fragrance inside it..If u keep it always open soon u will loose ur fragrance.So act wisely.
  
  
• God picked up a flower n dipped it in dew,he lovingly touched it, & it turned into you. And then he gifted it to me n said this friend is 4 u
  
  
• Na puch mere sabar ki inteha kaha tak hai,tu sitam kar le teri takat jahan tak hai,wafa ki umeed jinhe hogi unhe hogi,hume to dekhna hai tu bewafa kahan tak hai.
  
  
• Har subah teri muskurati rahe har shaam teri gungunati rahe
  tu jise bhi mile is tarahe se mile ke har milne wale ko teri yaad aati rahe...
  
  
• Pal pal ne kaha 1 pal se... Pal bhar ke liye tum mere sath raho......
  Pal bhar ka sath kuch aisa ho ki har pal tum hi tum yaad Raho.
  
  
• Zindagi me chaar cheezien kabhi bhi aa sakti hain-'Neend';'Paisa';'maut';aur...aur...aur...aur...'MERI PYARI SI YAAD' kyon...Aayi na.
  
  
• Without Love -- dayz are
  Without Love -- dayz are
  Sadday,
  moanday,
  tearsday,
  wasteday,
  thirstday,
  frightday,
  shatterday... so be in Luv everyday..
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• Life ends when you stop dreaming
  Life ends when you stop dreaming, hope ends when you stop believing and love ends when you stop caring. So dream hope and love...Makes Life Beautiful
  
  
• Time will always fly Time will always fly, but our love will never die. Keep in touch and remeber me
  
  
• When time comes for u to give ur heart to someone, make sure u select someone who will never break ur heart, cuz broken hearts has never spare parts.
  
  
• I m going to write on all the bricks I MISS U and i wish that one falls on ur head,so that u knows how it hurts when u miss someone special like u.
  
  
• If 10 people care 4 u, one of them is me, if 1 person cares 4 u that would be me again, if no 1 cares 4 u that means i m not in this world.
  
  
• I m feeling so happy, do u know why? cuz i m so lucky, do u know how? cuz God loves me.Do u know how? cuz he gave me a gift. Do u know what? its YOU my love.
  
  
• 1st time i saw u i was scared 2 touch u.1st time i touched u i was scared 2 kiss u.1st time i kiss u i was scared to luv u.but now dat i luv u im scared 2 lose u!
  
  
• If I were a tear in ur eye i wood roll down onto ur lips.But if u were a tear in my eye i wood never cry as i wood be afraid 2 lose u!
  
  
• I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes!

Intelligence [short story]

An old man lived alone in a village. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and mentioned his situation.

Dear Son, I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year. I hate to miss doing the garden, because your mother always loved planting time. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren't in prison. Love, Dad

Shortly, the old man received this Telegram -

"For Heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up the garden. That's where I buried the GUNS" at 4a.m.

The next morning, a dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.

Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what happened, and asked him what to do next.

His son's reply was: "Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It's the best I could do for you from here ."

- Moral of the Story - No matter where you are in the world, if you have decided to do something deep from you heart, you can do it.

Romantic Tips

Love and romance is a flower that brings happiness and fragrance to everyone who touches it. It gives us a reason to smile when the world seems upside down. It fills the empty places in our heart, giving us hope for a future. It brings shine in the eyes making us the most beautiful person on the earth. Love is happiness, love is joy, and love is the happiness in everyone’s life.

Let this love envelop you in its romantic cuddle this Valentine. Let Valentine not be the occasion but love the occasion to Valentine. Here are some romantic tips to bring back that magic spark into your lives. Never underestimate the power of love. Even these small gestures, will fill your love life with romance and happiness.

So whether you are looking for some great romantic ideas or a number of romance tips, we have it all. Bring back those moonlight walks and candle light dinners with us at wondor.blogspot.com

"The art of love... is largely the art of persistence" Dr Albert Ellis

• Send a dozen roses: 11 red roses and 1 white one. The note: "In every bunch there's one who stands out - and you are that one."
• Write him/her a check for one million kisses.
• Something for the Honeymoon or anniversary.... a l0ttery ticket and a note: "I hit the jackp0t when I married you."
• Book A Massage to give your partner a professional massage.
• Kiss every square inch of her body S-L-O-W-L-Y
• Hide a love note in a bottle of vitamins. The note will say: "Try some vitamin L."
• Scatter rose petals all over the bed.
• Buy the music Romantic CD "Let's talk about love" by Celine Dion.
• Three simple sex rules:
  * gals are slow, guys are fast
  * guys are visual: Show him...
  * gals are auditory: Tell her...
• Write notes on Post-it notes and stick them around.
• Don't buy cheap lingerie unless you plan to rip it off her in passionate lovemaking.
• Hide a love note in his pants pocket.
• Other places to hide a small note:
  * under the pillow
  * in his shaving kit
  * between the pages he/she is reading
• Guys: know her dress size, shoe and stocking size, blouse and nightgown size, bra and panty size, pants and coat size, and of course her finger size (for rings that fit).
  Gals: know his coat size, shoe and hat size, shirt and pants size, finger size (for bowling balls that fit).
• Give the gift of time (wristwatch) with this inscription: "I'll always have time for you."
• NEVER, never, never say "I told you so".
• Mail a lock of your hair to your lover.
• Ask him to pick a number between 1 and 50, then reward him with that number of kisses.
• Make a habit of taking a stroll after dinner every evening.

"Women fall in love through their ears, men fall in love through their eyes.". Woodrow Wyatt.

• When dining, share everything: your meals and desserts.
• Make love on top of the washer/dryer (while it's running).
• Attach a note on the TV remote: "Turn me on instead!"
• Before getting out of bed, face your partner, give him/her a kiss and say: "I'm so thankful I have you in my life."
• Sign your letters: "Forever and a day"
• Place a heart-shaped sticker on your wristwatch to remind you to call.
• On your lover's birthday send his/her mother a "Thank you" card.
• Hide a pair of earrings in a box of chocolates.
• Celebrate the anniversary of when you first met.
• Shower together by candlelight.
• Use the little strips of paper from Hershey's kisses as coupons redeemable for one kiss each.
• Tell your mate that you - love, adore, admire, cherish, desire, want, need, prize, esteem, idolize, revere, treasure him/her.
• Hide a little gift for her so she'll find it during a walk together.
• Leave a note: "I know we are soulmates because....."

"Imagination is more important than knowledge" - Albert Einstein

• Give her your jacket when she is chilly.
• Nothing is impossible to a willing heart, so let your imagination go wild.
• Guys: Hold her dinner chair.

"One does not fall 'in' or 'out' of love. One grows in love" - Leo Buscaglia

• Buy her an outfit while she's trying it on; let her wear it out of the store.
• Slip a little love note into his wallet, in between the dollar bills.
• Drip chocolate syrup on selected body parts before lovemaking.

Inspiration for long time lovers: "The older the violin, the sweeter the music" - Anonymous

• Gently brush her cheeks with your lips.
• Give him a lottery ticket. Attach a note: "You are one in a million"
• While slow dancing, whisper something sweet to her.
• Get the song "I Will Always Love You" by Whitney Houston.
• When attending a wedding, whisper: "If I had to do it over, I'd marry you again."
• Hide a teeny, tiny gift somewhere on your body and make him find it.
• Fill his toolbox with lingerie. Make him "work" to get his tools back.
• Fold a love note in a fluffy bath towel.
• Run your hands under warm water before going to bed.
• Let a Shakespearean quote speak for you.
• Gals: Never, never, never talk about your past boyfriends in front of him.
• Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
• Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
• Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.
• Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
• Play "hide-and-seek" in the rain. It's fun and VERY sensual!
• Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
• Invite your sweetie to an intimate dinner at your place. Make a pizza and with the pepperoni you can write something sweet, like "you are the one for me".
• Surprise your lover with a kiss before they can finish a sentence.
• Write your own love poems then record them on a tape and give them to your sweetheart.
• Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!
• While your love takes a shower, write the words "I love you" in the condensation of the bathroom mirror.
• Leave a trail of "Hershey's chocolate kisses" from the front door to the bedroom, right up to the bed. On the bed leave a note that reads 'I kiss the ground you walk on.' Make sure you're not home when s/he gets in!
• Play the game of monopoly with a few new rules. Change boardwalk into backrub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc.
• Look straight into the eyes of your love and PAY ATTENTION to what they tell you! Tell your mate something about you that no one else knows.
• Look into the eyes of your special someone often. "The eyes are the window to the soul". Weave love, sex, intimacy, passion and romance into the fabric of your daily lives.
• Buy a set of matching silk pajamas, and take turns modeling them for each other.
• Men: Talk more. Women: Touch more.